As I read through this article posted on MSN, I could not help but think, this could have some validity. However this would go for males and females, not just GUYS!
Ladies, some of you know - these tips apply to your'll as well...

I will respond as the interaction goes on....

His Dating Diary: 9 Signs Your Guy Is Cheating
Are you suspicious that your significant other is playing the field? Here, one man shares 9 relationship red flags that may signal some extracurricular irregularities.
(By Rich Santos/Marie Claire)

When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don't want to make false accusations.

So, while I'm sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it's a tricky situation. It's hard to be sure if someone's cheating, but protect yourself: Be vigilant, and pay attention to your mind and spirit within the relationship. But, at the same time, be careful not to let anxiety lead the way because unnecessary paranoia will just drive your lover away. Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating:

1. Less SexUnless he's Superman, he can only have so much sex. So, if he's getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether it's another woman or a porn addiction — even if he's not cheating — a decrease in sex signals serious issues in the relationship.

2. Jumpy Cell Phone HabitsIn a perfect world, we'd be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, we trust that we don't have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.

3. Gushing or Talking About Someone SuddenlyYou know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough, after she dumped me, she began dating him.

4. DisconnectingEven though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you're sensing that he's drawing away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnection should be investigated regardless of whether it's caused by cheating. There's a problem if he's not laughing or seeming as passionate as usual. It's hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it's being given to someone else.

5. He's Pulling "Houdinis"If he's disappearing, traveling, or unavailable to the point where you are starting to wonder, then he could be cheating. Also, these times tend to take on a pattern because it's tough to synch up schedules, especially in secret.

6. His Friends Are Acting StrangeHis friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.

7. He's Being Caught in Lies About Other ThingsIf you catch him in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don't hold a grudge — forgiveness is a good thing. You can forgive, but don't forget. If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.

8. Been There, Done ThatI always say: "Once a cheater, always a cheater." If he's done it before, he's definitely capable of doing it again. It has nothing to do with you, which is why you can't say that he cheated on his previous lover because she didn't keep him happy. Cheating is a self-serving act in which the cheater doesn't take his significant other into consideration. If someone is upfront with you that he's made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance —— but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down.

9. Your Gut Tells You SoDon't ignore your sixth sense. People are gifted at sensing when something doesn't feel right. Whether there are red flags in your relationship that are clueing you in or not, if something feels off, don't ignore this feeling. Usually that suspicion is correct, and something intangible may have led to you figuring it all out.

The Gray Area

The Gray Area

As i read the post of D Woods on Global Grind, I couldn't help but to think "sad". Of the many artist that have sailed through Bad Boy and the like of many other labels how many really have had and still has a substantial career. Never mind the fact that you are attempting to fulfill a dream. When fulfilling a dream remember that the dream is yours and not the label that you are signed to.
With that being said, as an individual that has been in the background of the music business for many years, I encourage all artists to take their careers into their own hands. Do your homework, look beyond the change that the labels will post to your account quarterly (shorts). You are probably worth more to yourself and your career than you are to the label. Do the math and realize the profits are yours if you follow the mindset of a hustler. Remember - "Life is a hustle", and unless you are willing to hustle for it, you may be standing alone short of the finish line.
While I have friends and associates that have had lucrative careers in the music business, this is far and few in between. For every one friend that I have that has made it, I have three that are struggling to reach that level. Even today....

Do your homework and due diligence and seek the rewards that are truly yours.

C Browne
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A Woman Knows...

A woman knows a lot of things. A woman is strong enough to make decisions that some men won't. While the next thing that you might read may throw you for a loop, I ecourage you all to chime in on a discussion that I often have with some of my brothers out here.

The statement is that "A woman knows within 60 seconds of meeting a man if she wants to sleep with him". Now while I disagree with the statement - I have to remain neutral. My thoughts are simply; a "woman" or a "lady", or anyone of substance may have a thought or two when meeting an individual - but; that's not it.

Now I've been wrong before, (once upon a time), so please once again - let's get to the bottom of this one. Sign in and get in...
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I Knew it Was Too Good To Be True

http://m.cnn.com/cnn/lt_ne/lt_ne/detail/212966;jsessionid=2627B7E597F1C144AC829FB000470B7B.live23i
How can it happen after such a steep decline?
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If it Walks Like a "DUCK" and Quacks Like a "DUCK"...

Then "DUCK"... We shouldve known he wouldve ducked out of the way of that one. He has been able to duck the issues or "His Shoes" for years, in order to promote his own agenda. Hey George DUCK!!!!!

The Holidays... Are They Really Festive for All?

As we approach the holiday season, whether it be an office party or the family dinner; remember that not every one is as festive.



Some people are approaching the holiday season lonely and against there wishes. While on the outside you will probabaly never know, deep down inside there is a bit of pain amongst the joy.

For help on this matter I say check out these tips http://tinyurl.com/wfffr and lets all have a safe and great holiday season.

One More Drink... Now that one could be a problem

So I really have to wonder; How many have been in this situation before. One more drink, and that guy or girl starts to look like the mate of your dreams. You didn't know your limit, and now... Not to mention the morning after.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBMpaFiX7bw

Big Brother is Truly Watching...

Now let me see if i got this right; my movements if deemed suspicious, not just momemtarily confused, can cause a police officer to confront me. While we see this as a pilot problem in the U.K. rest assured, it will be arrive in the U.S. Shortly.

http://tinyurl.com/6xvh98

John Forte To be Home By Christmas...

It surely has been a long time coming. http://preview.tinyurl.com/5egtqy

I really think "Bush" (I don't call him president), "Still doesnt care about black people". (Thanks Kanye).

Is it Possible to Tell if He Will Cheat on You?

Let some tell it, there are signs that can tell you, from the door if "He" is a cheater or not. http://tinyurl.com/6nrgvk - While I will reserve my comment until the end, I invite you all to read along and let me know what you think. Be honest... (that's a whole other problem)...

Playing it Safe at Work...

I think we have all been there. The new or the old co-worker that suddenly gets your attention. You havent quite figured out if its okay to pursue a relationship, and if so how? With extreme caution http://tinyurl.com/6c9ak2. Take note and read carefully, especially for those that live two lives. (Hint! Hint!).

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Study suggests women value clothes over sex - Diversions

Study suggests women value clothes over sex - Diversions

The Art Of Starting Over...

The changing tide of many a relationships that leads one on a quest. The all important quest of “finding yourself”. What is that? Given all of the challenges that you have faced and conquered for many years of your life, I’d say you pretty much got this game on lock. The all competitive world of dating awaits as your friends instruct you to do a number of things; one- take time out to heal your wounds, two- get out there and date like crazy. As we observe the two remedies realize they are both on different ends of the spectrum. So which one is right for you? Which one will have you at the end of the day with your shoulders high? Let me Know?

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